David Charles David Charles

Outrage or Indifference?

Why do some people respond to violence with outrage while others remain indifferent? This article explores the psychology behind these divided reactions — from moral judgment and compassion fatigue to the hidden toll of domestic and emotional abuse. Drawing on research from psychology, criminology, and public health, it highlights how violence can be both visible and invisible, and what evidence-based strategies can reduce its impact.

Read More
David Charles David Charles

Quick Love, Real Consequences: The Double-Edged Sword of Dating App Culture

Dating apps have revolutionized how we pursue relationships—but at what cost? This article explores the psychological impact of dating apps, from enhanced compatibility and modern convenience to emotional fatigue, anxiety, and identity pressure—especially within the queer community.

Backed by history and science, I then offer mindful strategies to help you swipe smarter and connect deeper.

Read More
David Charles David Charles

They Play Dumb To Control You – The Dark Art Of Weaponized Incompetence

Ever felt like you're always left handling difficult tasks because someone claims they're just "not good" at them? This isn't accidental—it's a calculated strategy known as weaponized incompetence. Learn how to spot this subtle manipulation and take steps to reclaim fairness and balance in your relationships.

Read More